Why does everyone say boobs will win a 12-14 year old boys affections?
I don't get it? To start, I am 13 (yes, I repeat 13). And I see people come on here and say "Boobs and video games will get you a (12-14) year old guy". I don't get it, if I liked a girl it would be for WHO SHE IS, not her breasts! If she liked the same video games before me, or she finds them fun, ok, that might help. But if she just plays them to get me, why would I want that? I mean, come on people! What should a girls breast size have to do with anything? I'm 13, I might be interested in sex hormones, but not sex/games/things. FOR ADULTS: What is your opinion? FOR BOYS MY AGE: Do video games/boobs have anything to do with you opinion of a girl? FOR OLDER BOYS: Did they for you? FOR GIRLS: Do you think a guy only went out with you for breasts? And did you ever try to change yourself to get a guy? Me: Did you even bother to read the question, please re-read it. And to add, many boys can develop breasts (particually those on steroids). As a matter of fact, I have. Would you dump me for that? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gynecomastia Mine arn't as big as the picture listed, but I do have them. Teenzyla: I would respect it if you could GIVE SOME PROPER ANSWERS. Asia: There is a difference. Men and women are both born with the same tissue, but becuase of estrogen, a females breasts will develop. Becuase of testosterone, a mans will develop into muscles. BUT a women can't grow a penis and a man can't grow a vagina. But a man can grow breasts. To answer, I really don't know. If I liked her for WHO SHE IS and not WHAT SHE IS. Asia: Too add, if I took one of these http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aromatase_inhibitor And exercised, I could get rid of them. Simple. If I added something called "niacin" they would go faster. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Niacin And then L-Dopa, I would burn fat, EVEN FASTER. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L-dopa The reason, hormones. Asia: If their genetics tell them to have an excess of the estrogen hormone, then YES, YES THEY ARE. And your comparing TWO COMPLETLY DIFFERNT THINGS. Men AND women both have breats/pectorals. But only men and a penis, and only women have a vagina. So, if you were a guy and you girlfriend had pecs, would you date her? Wow, the nerve of some people... Asia: Allow me to explain. Becuase I'm so tall, it indicates excess estrogen in my body. EVERYONE has it, but my levels are higher, becuase I need it to stimulate bone growth. Following me so far? Becuase I over eat, some of the fat needs to go somewherem estrgoen deposites it in the breat area. Becuase this is part of my genetic structure (hormonally), I AM meant to have them. Asia: Just pointing out, you missed out an "edit". Second, I CAN'T. I might WANT to, but, guess what, I'm 13. And my mother won't let me. And I may not want to keep them, but my weight can have big advantages in sports (tug of war, etc). Did you know the EFAs and BFAs will actually REVERSE that effect? So Omega 3-6-9 (something I'm allowed to take) will help me. So I'm getting there.

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Is he into me or not?
e and my boyfriend care about each other deeply. We've almost been going out for 9 months now. The thing is we kind of hit a bump. We both realized we don't have anything in common. All he does most of the time is xbox and cards. and i'm not into gaming. So I end up just sitting there while he's playing games with his friends. I've suggested walks,parks,picnic but he doesn't want to do that at all. We both like camping so we are going to try that sometime. But it's not just about that...it's the fact he says he's such a cold person with no emotions yet he says he loves me. I don't understand that. And then he said that if I broke up with him he would start dating again like if a girl asked him out he would say yes. but he said he would still love me. It's just he thinks that if I broke up with him it would be like a full on decission. So I understand he's not going to dwell. But the other problem is he's selfish. He's lazy. He even said this. Like anytime he gets a hold of money he automatically wants to buy xbox games or cards. Anytime I get a hold of money for US to do something he wants to buy something for himself. He explained it's an addiction. And I told him to work on it and he said he can't. I don't know how we are going to do this. I really do care about him. But it is true..he's addicted to xbox and cards. I'm trying to get into games more so we can do soemthing else but....other then that I don't know what to do. But I don't want to break up with him either. I just love his goofy personality. Love it. But even he says that I can do better. But...I want to be with him. I want to make this work. It's just...I don't know how he could say he loves me when he says he is an empty shell sometimes. But he does get worried about me and everything.So I know he cares too. I just really want this to work. I want him to enjoy more being with me and what not. But again it scares me the thought that he might not love me but he says he does. It's just I would think he would try harder to get over his addiction if he did love me. I don't know! I guess i'm kind of a romantic fool and wanting someone to love me. I already had an issue with my last relationship. They loved someone else the whole time. And I don't want to feel like that again. I mean be in a relationship with someone that doesn't truelly love me. I'm really worried. Yes, I talked to him about all of this. All he said was I deserved better and that he wants me to be happy. And would date other girls if I decided to dump him and if a girl asked him out the next day he would say yes. Also, he said most of the time what's on his mind is Video games, boobs,cards and that's pretty much it. Not for sure if he was just joking or not.

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Love Vs. His addiction?
e and my boyfriend care about each other deeply. We've almost been going out for 9 months now. The thing is we kind of hit a bump. We both realized we don't have anything in common. All he does most of the time is xbox and cards. and i'm not into gaming. So I end up just sitting there while he's playing games with his friends. I've suggested walks,parks,picnic but he doesn't want to do that at all. We both like camping so we are going to try that sometime. But it's not just about that...it's the fact he says he's such a cold person with no emotions yet he says he loves me. I don't understand that. And then he said that if I broke up with him he would start dating again like if a girl asked him out he would say yes. but he said he would still love me. It's just he thinks that if I broke up with him it would be like a full on decission. So I understand he's not going to dwell. But the other problem is he's selfish. He's lazy. He even said this. Like anytime he gets a hold of money he automatically wants to buy xbox games or cards. Anytime I get a hold of money for US to do something he wants to buy something for himself. He explained it's an addiction. And I told him to work on it and he said he can't. I don't know how we are going to do this. I really do care about him. But it is true..he's addicted to xbox and cards. I'm trying to get into games more so we can do soemthing else but....other then that I don't know what to do. But I don't want to break up with him either. I just love his goofy personality. Love it. But even he says that I can do better. But...I want to be with him. I want to make this work. It's just...I don't know how he could say he loves me when he says he is an empty shell sometimes. But he does get worried about me and everything.So I know he cares too. I just really want this to work. I want him to enjoy more being with me and what not. But again it scares me the thought that he might not love me but he says he does. It's just I would think he would try harder to get over his addiction if he did love me. I don't know! I guess i'm kind of a romantic fool and wanting someone to love me. I already had an issue with my last relationship. They loved someone else the whole time. And I don't want to feel like that again. I mean be in a relationship with someone that doesn't truelly love me. I'm really worried. Yes, I talked to him about all of this. All he said was I deserved better and that he wants me to be happy. And would date other girls if I decided to dump him and if a girl asked him out the next day he would say yes. Also, he said most of the time what's on his mind is Video games, boobs,cards and that's pretty much it. Not for sure if he was just joking or not.

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